HMMMM!!!

Which way would be more fair? I count stuff my kids help me with since it is coming from my stash but the help they give is minimal. Tying knots in drawstrings, ironing, cutting out or a little bit of sewing is what they do for me. Your DIL is stealing stash and completing whole items.
Lets ask the audience on this one.
OK everybody who is reading this thread what do you think?
Should we let her DIL join even though she doesn't have her own stash?
If we let her join who gets the yardage DIL or MIL?